SHAPE American Elementary School Introduces SHAPE Knight Buddy Bench to Promote Kindness

SHAPE, Belgium — Students at SHAPE American Elementary School are embracing a new symbol of kindness and connection thanks to the Student Leadership Team, Dr. Sarah Johnes, Ms. Ashley Gregal and BSA Scout Troop 325G member Madeline Hansen. Together, they brought to life the SHAPE Knight Buddy Bench, a project designed to help students feel seen, supported and included throughout the school day.

The Buddy Bench offers a simple but meaningful way for children to signal when they are feeling lonely or looking for someone to play with. By taking a seat on the bench, a student communicates to classmates and teachers that they are seeking connection—an invitation for others to start a conversation, extend friendship or join in play. “I sit at the buddy bench sometimes because sometimes I have no one to play with,” one fourth grader said. “This is an opportunity to make new friends.”

Dr. Johnes shared that the Buddy Bench had been a long-standing dream of the Student Leadership Team, and she expressed pride in seeing that dream become reality. Already, she noted, the bench has made a visible difference by helping students combat loneliness, practice empathy and build a more inclusive school environment.

What began as a student-led vision took shape through Madeline’s Eagle Scout service project, demonstrating the impact of collaboration between youth leadership and community service. The Buddy Bench was built to reduce isolation, encourage positive social interactions and give students a safe, low-stress way to seek help or companionship. Ms. Gregal emphasized her commitment to supporting projects that strengthen mental wellbeing, prevent bullying and promote healthy social skills. She said working alongside Madeline to bring this initiative to life was deeply meaningful, knowing it would have lasting benefits for students.

Already, students are connecting in new ways. One fourth grader said, “There was a kid on the bench. I went up to him and asked him to play. He said sure. We played tag and hide-and-seek.” A third grader reflected, “The bench is a cool idea because if you are left out, you can sit there, and you can play with other people.” Even younger students recognize its value, with one second grader noting, “I love the bench because you can see if anyone needs to play if you need an extra person.”

More than just a place to sit, the SHAPE Knight Buddy Bench represents the school community’s commitment to empathy, friendship and caring for one another. By creating a space where students can signal their need for connection, SHAPE American Elementary School is helping children build resilience, compassion and meaningful bonds of friendship.